If the issue is sex not often enough, this is an entirely different matter. This I understand. I need to be properly matched regarding sexual appetite. This doesn't detract though from anyone. It is a feature of my perceived needs. But the mum being involved and some of your other statements re: head, being owed, and feeling a person *should be* .....anything, are an entirely different matter. Plain and simple, you are poorly matched, and need to really enlighten your self in the matter of love, bonding, friendship and and their components in general. Sexual/relational constructs of any value simply fly well beyond some of what concerns you. I know you're getting blasted, I am sorry that you are...but tbh, you need a wake up call. Otherwise you have a revolving relationship issue, and become a misanthropist. How old are you? I mean you have to be really young.

Listen...sit back...and pretend we are talking about your sister, or any female for whom you genuinely feel warmly. Also...imagine this is someone whom you are surprised to discover......., is writing about a relationship with her.