I made a very large realization. My husband, although very happy to be married, is so entrenched in his own world, that he won't step out of his comfort zone enough to make the relationship work. I have decided to talk to the counselor about his inflexibility.

I think my mind already knows what I need to do, but heart isn't ready yet. It's a hard place to be. Thank you everyone for your advice. I really do appreciate it.