Oh, and tinyrabbit, in response, I did not expect to change him. Until we got married, even though we had quite a few problems, he always tried. It might take him a day or so to let things sink in, but he always put his best foot forward. I could handle the slowness, as long as he tried. Since we have been married, he has stopped. I feel like I'm married on his terms, and his terms are me being the all knowing and all forgiving wife because he has AS, and he has the luxury of staying in his world and only doing what he wants to.

Sad, but true.