What kind of girl ? The kind that is exploring life and her sexuality. Figuring out who she is, what relating to people means to her, and oftentimes, it is someone who wants acceptance at any cost .

What kind of person would find her value lessened by something like this ? What exactly does this say about her to you that makes her less than? She, aside from that, is still the girl you took interest in, right ? Has anything about her diminished simply because of this one experience ?

You know, if a male is out there "conquering females", or has such an experience as she did, he's a stud. If a female does the same thing, she's a slut. This doesn't make any sense to me. It is bias. It's short sighted. It is also shallow. As this factor about her past doesn't, in essence, reflect on her value [in toto} whatsoever. A woman is not a sex, or a gender….she is an entity, sexless.

You, yourself told her you didn't want her knowing about your past….why ? Is there something there which is similar…worse ? Is her past somehow less palatable for the mere fact that she is female ?

Why would you call a female a slut ? "Easy" girls disgust you ? Wow.

Maybe it's because you are feeling insecure about your desires not being fulfilled that you resent her. Do you help -her- out when she is on her period ? If not, why should she help you out when she is on her period ?

You said * I kept thinking "what did they do or other guys do that im not doing" * What makes you think any of what is going on has something to do with " other guys" ?

"Not -feeling good- " in the context of sex, is not comparable to going out to dinner. I mean come on….sex is an emotional, physical, and spiritual exchange. it isn't like walking to your car, and sitting at a table for dinner. One often requires emotional, physical, and spiritual energy to engage. Or, I do anyway. I mean sure, a quickie is fine sometimes, but, I can go for hours on end, and prefer it that way, but I cant do it all the time. So I don't see how leaving her abode to eat food is relative ?

Who is her mom to say that her daughter needs to "address your needs" ? This is a private matter. This is essentially a mum saying her daughter needs to give you head ? What ? This blows me away. [no pun intended] . Any sexual act is a gift, not a chore. So, "needs" to give you something? Uh….I think not. This isn't the dark ages. Women are not here to service you…change your oil. They aren't -objects-. They are divas, goddesses. And I feel as strongly about men ….if attributable to the individual.

Maybe if you had a different attitude, it'd be her mission to please you in every way she can conjure. I found that in one relationship there were loads of things I -wouldn't do-. I see now…it wasn't me…it was him. I went on to a different relationship, and there was NOTHING I wouldn't do to please my partner. But, I was inspired. He encompassed everything there was to beckon such a response.

If you can't put a ring on a persons finger because of their earlier exploits in self-discovery, self-actualization…perhaps she should fly off to another love anyhow…

You have no respect for a woman with a BREAST ALTERATION ["boob-job" purposefully omitted] ? Have you any idea what pressures society places upon women to be a particular creature in order to have self-love ?

Do her a favor…end it now so that she can find someone else….someone who actually LOVES women. Because you, sir, ...do not. You see them as objects, tools, and things to be controlled and use to satisfy your own ego/agenda. Women...and men for that matter are universes .

Edit: If you want her to be more prone to satisfying you during her period...satisfy her... put a few towels under her bottom and use your hands. [orgasm diminishes cramps and are very intense during this time] Feed her chocolates, massage her uterus, give her a warming pad. Treat her like the queen she really is, and you won't be able to get her off of you. Eventually she may want to reciprocate. I would/did. You can do this for her whilst she is doing the other for you. And if you think that's not worth your time and tenderness......well, leave her to it.