Wow, I am really grateful that I posted this here. I must confess that I smoke weed and I am often under the influence of marijuana. Sometimes this affects my behaviour in good ways and bad. I made this snap decision after some drama had gone down in Miguel's (my husband) family. I remember thinking, "Just do it" etc. strongly. Then I just about had a panic attack straight until I removed that page. I kept thinking that my husband secretly knew what I had done and that his family was all talking about me planning their next move and I would be an outcast. But the regret I felt after I did it was unrelenting and cruel, I would never do that again. I am glad that I felt what it would be like to have crossed that line permanently and outed his Aunt- I would have regretted it and it is NOT my place. Thanks everybody. Yours truly, Lightbulb7