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Old Aug 08, 2013, 06:13 PM
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Originally Posted by LarSo View Post
If you don't want to break a long-standing marriage for an older couple that's been good in all aspects but not in the last few years in sexual fulfillment for one partner, isn't it ok to have a private, outside sexual relationship?

If you can afford to have an outside sex partner, who is happy in that role, and the sexual satisfaction keeps your marriage, isn't that a good outcome?
You are asking about whether it is a good outcome.

Three people are involved:

- your wife
- you
- your hypothetical second partner.

So to say that it is a good outcome, you need to take into account the viewpoint of each of those three folks.

I am not saying that it would not be a good outcome - no - I am just saying that all three people have their feelings, expectations, hopes, etc.

So all need to be consulted with.