Ok.. What happened is, my son was in a private school in his mid-teens. He was there for the structure, because he was out of control at home. Ok.. The school had a therapist, which I always kept in contact with, because I was so concerned over my son.

I never met the therapist in person. Although I prob did call him too often. Welllllllllllllllllll.. The Therapist was asking me all kinds of questions which I answered.. And somehow, he started playing this game "truth or dare" over the phone.. K...
And it started off ok, but graduated into daring to take off clothes and stuff. k ummm Which I got caught up in and played along. It was oo so daring for me.... and naughty... ok.. I think we may have played a few other times, esp in the evening... All of this happened always over the phone, never in person, as I never met him in person...

Anyway, I didn't think of it as bad, because I wasn't his client. Anyway I mentioned it in group one evening, I guess maybe I felt a little guilty or ashamed and believed it was my fault since I didn't stop it.. Wellllllll group T had a fit. Saying that the therapist at the private school was unethical and if he did that with me, he could very well being doing similar things to the students at the school.......... sooooooo anyway my T actually MADE me write a letter of complaint to the school..Actually my therapist had me write the letter during our therapy sessions. so make sure I would do it. . And well all it did was make me look stupid, etc... think the T was put on probation for a few months....

ANYWay... Was the therapist unethical? Being I was not his client.. Although he did instigate the games. But I played along. My T asked me why I did it.. I said I wanted to find my sense of "womanhood". In other words, women can flaunt their bodies, and tease and play those "female" games with men, whereas I never could do that. I wanted I guess to see if I could be flirtatious, etc...

Oh my T somehow made it all out that because I was molested as a child that I let all this happen.. Which I don't believe he is correct.. But anyway that is how he saw it and said I was a victim .. which I don't see the same as he does.. hmm Am I that dense or stupid to see the real picture here?????

Considering I played along, it was neither the T's fault or my fault. It just happened... Was this wrong??????

Overlook the way this is written because I didn't like write proper. I just spit it out .. So any errors, just overlook them..