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Originally Posted by LolaCabanna
Have you thought about just standing up for yourself? Next time she starts hollering at you , walk out of the room. Just get up and leave...lock yourself in the bathroom, tell her to save her breathe, as your well aware of how you suck, you have weight issues and your lazy. Sarcasm at its finest , I had a younger sister who would just agree with my parents when they started in on her... I think it took the sting out and because they didn't get a rise from her they stopped jacking with her... Of course they had plenty of other kids to choose from and they weren't as passive. It takes 2 to interact, so when she starts in... Just leave, walk outside...do the lalalal thing. You could also just tell her to stop, you've heard enough.
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I do this all the time. If try to defend myself or say anything too obviously sarcastic, all it does is make the conversation louder, more aggressive, and increases the chance of violence. If I tell her to stop, that is a nightmare. "You do NOT tell your mother to stop. I am your mother and you have to listen to me" blah blah blah. If I just agree, she just continues and if I leave, she follows me. She'll keep talking through the bathroom door or sit by it waiting for me to come out.
I just have to appear as busy as possible doing the things she finds acceptable or hope she has something to nag my siblings about.