I think it was unethical, unprofessional & scary! That guy seemed to sense your vulnerability & take advantage of it, IMO. I think it is in the same realm as being molested by someone in "authority" over you as he had power over you through your son. My mother had an affair with her psychiatrist & though she could be abnormally sexual when manic, I think he took advantage of her & her symptoms. Sounds like a creepy guy to me, but I don't get the "phone sex" thing.--Suzy