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Originally Posted by 1914sierra
It just seems odd to ask someone to give you a gift. That just seems counter to what gift giving is about. I might ask for a letter or something like that, but to ask someone to give me a gift just seems bad form. Now maybe if the two of you created something together as part of a session, that would be much more appropriate and perhaps more meaningful in the long run.
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Just wondered if you read all my posts above, because doing it together was my Plan B. I would never ask anyone else, but I don't think it's rude to ask my T. She's not just SOMEONE; she's my T. The problem with creating something together, is that I don't think she can be creative "in the session". When I was painting or making a collage once, she was doodling, and it wasn't very good. The birthday card we made together was just what I needed at the time, but I want something that shows my T's love of art. But I suppose maybe if we make it an entire session, and plan for it(but not my last session), it could work.
I know I will talk about my disappointment because I can see her saying that she can't paint a picture for me, and I feel the hurt about it already. But maybe she WILL do it for me. I'll ask her next session because I want to get it over with.