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Originally Posted by feralkittymom
I could see asking to exchange notes, or even, perhaps, asking for something little from the office if her office is the type where there's lots of little "things." But more than that, no.
I didn't want anything tangible from my T, though I gave him a small gift related to his hobby--but that was because he was retiring, not becauses: our therapy was ending. I just didn't feel the need for a "thing."
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It's not that it's a "thing"; it's more because my T and I share a love of art. I suppose I could ask her for photos of some of her artwork.
I guess the bottom line is that my distorted thinking is: "T, if you really, really care about me, and I'm not just your job, you would do this for me because it would mean so very much to me."
I don't want something from her office: she's given me little things. I want her ARTWORK because it's HER passion, and she's helping me find mine. Maybe that's illogical. Maybe I'm in the clouds again. Maybe asking and getting a no will get me to finally cry in therapy. I don't know but asking her is very important.