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Originally Posted by MarlboroChick
Even if you board cant you get off campus for a little while? Go down to a coffee shop or something and meet people? If your not into the drug and alcohol scene (i dont really blame you, it wont help anyways), try to join groups or social activities even if its awkward at first. Unless your school is super small, there has to be a place where you 'belong'. That deeper connection you seem like you want with 'true friends' is hard to find anywhere. Instead of following a routine and going the same places every day walk around in sections of the campus where you usually dont go, see if you meet anybody. If you want to meet new people youll have to put yourself out there. Sitting on the side and hoping someone will find you wont help.
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Its a small school and we are not allowed of the grounds at all unless doing a sport, which I do (rugby). Rugby is the sport that everyone in my year do and its the only one I am decent at( I'v tried all the others, the 3 others). The real friends comment was about people that won't stab you in the back, nothing like being therefor you all the time type stuff, just someone I could sit down and chat with, without them spreading whatever I had said. Here's a link(whs.ie), you should look at it and see what it's looks like and how its in the middle of no where. If you do read some stuff from the website it might show you a bit more of what I'm dealing with school wise, if you don't I won't blame you its a **** hole.