And it also doesn't mean that they are not applicable, we have a small window into each others lives and its colored by the lense we present them through.

I choose not to stand up for myself, I am more then capable, until the current sale of the house is over and I have been clear about this. As far as my deliverance of information, yeah it's been handed to me just like that ...point blank by many on these very boards. I find that all good insight doesn't always come in a soft pink fuzzy box and by her own admission she isn't activly suicidal either. If she were I would have left out the honesty all together, im not an idiot.

Sorry that I offended you with the way I presented my opinion , thank you for pointing out my shortcomings as well , I live in a glass house and I threw a stone. I'm not mad at ya or her... I think she knows that from our previous interactions. Dude at the end of the day we are all just trying to help each other out and sometimes people on here will place a mirror right to your face , verbally of course, in hopes of pulling you out of your own helpless despair. How about a truce huh?

I wasn't hypocritical, I choose to not stand up for me right now... When the timing is right, I will. That appears to be her plan too.