This topic was discussed some time in the past, with DocJohn weighing in on it (back when either JustBen or even Dexter was onboard??)
The decision was either the 35k or the comparable pixel size 125 x 600 was acceptable. (which decision I still found confusing

) IDK if the requirement has changed, due to the server's capabilities. hint hint ?
Right click on your picture... then click on properties...
for yours Desirae, it says 21676 bytes and 459 x 280 pixels.
If we go by the pixel size only, then yes, it's too large. However, if we compute your byte size... it is under the 35k at 21.676k
I agree and default to those who have dial up...(ah I remember the hassle well) and try not to post anything really large (except special occasions???) so the threads load faster for you all.
Just my POV.