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Originally Posted by growlycat
So rude!!!! I am so sorry. T should not do this!!!!
Discuss right away if you can.
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Phew I have been running around all day! I am exhausted.
ANYWAYS - When I was in session and 30 minutes had gone by I literally was thinking "is this really happening? am I dreaming?" I didn't know what to do. I was scared to move bc I didn't want to interrupt her call, and I didn't want to stay even if she got off the call bc I knew she'd likely be too distracted or worried about whatever it was she was trying to resolve. If she had gotten off the phone at 30 or 40 min there was likely not enough time to talk about anything because I literally had some place else to be that was back on my side of the world (1.5 hours away).
I haven't been able to discuss it with her in person/on the phone yet. She did eventually call me, but I was not in a place or position to chat with her so I ignored the calls. She sent an email, and when I received it I was still out running around. She told me it was some work stuff with her other job that she needed to resolve by the end of business today. She was very apologetic, acknowledged that is was very unprofessional to take that call and didn't think it would last that long. She offered a phone call, but the urge to talk about what I wanted to talk about is/was gone by the time she reached out to me.
My thing is, is that drive is RIDICULOUSLY long, and I feel like she could have waited 50 minutes to call that person back. Instead she literally used my entire session to talk to whoever it was about whatever contracts and such she had pending. At about the 50 min mark she turned around and apologized and I was walking out and told her that I had some place else to be.
I'm not necessarily thinking that she doesn't care about me or that I'm not important to her (or that what I had to talk about wasn't important) because I honestly don't care. I'm the type of person who literally doesn't expect much from anyone or depend on anyone for anything EVER, even T. To me this was a simple annoyance---I could have stayed at home and slept in a little longer and then went on about the other business I had to take care of, or saved some gas from that drive, ya know?
Thanks for the responses everyone!

I feel like I should be angry on some level, but I'm not sure if I am. Is annoyance considered an "angry" feeling...?