You mention that ONE sexual partner has not been fulfilled.

And go on to talk about YOUR affairs.

So, I have deduced that the ONE partner who has not been fulfilled is... YOU.

(of course I do have sympathy for your plight - no question about that)

But, the way you wrote it, it kind of seems that you are also the ONLY ONE partner who has not been fulfilled.

So, my mind is going, surely the wife must have been fulfilled - the guy says that only ONE partner, HE!!!!, has not been fulfilled. So she surely must have been fulfilled.

And yet, on your earlier thread, you write about all sorts of horrible physical things that have been going on with your wife. I have never personally experienced anything bad as far as my reproductive organs have been concerned (save for several years of medication-induced lack of anything remotely sexual, but that has been resolved, completely, by dropping the medications, so the issue was not one of my reproductive organs), so I do not have personal knowledge, but my general understanding of how things work in this world leads me to reason along the following lines: "If she is in so much pain, I wonder if SHE has been fulfilled... Because if all those horribly painful things are happening to her, and, gels or whatever it is that you mentioned are not helping, then... then I wonder if SHE experiences any pleasure. And if she does not, then, I keep wondering, are her needs being fulfilled?... And at the same time her husband is clearly convinced that HE is the only partner of the two whose sexual needs have not been fulfilled.. and... and, I wonder - is the husband in his right mind when he talks about being the ONE with unfulfilled needs? Is he in his right mind?"

Now, your turn to talk.

Again, I do fully sympathize with your plight - FULLY!!! - so all I am asking about is how come she has been left out of the equation.