No, I do not think that one can control such things. And, I enjoyed it. I think it was just something unusual going on. He was not purposely making it last forever - he was being authentic. Also, it was the first sex act in about... three weeks or so?.. and he was used to frequent sex. So it could have been a result of a bit of abstinence, perhaps? (he did not masturbate, not because he thought it was a bad thing, but because he needed a real live body in his bed, and, did not have a fantasy life).

Thanks for the "hun" and "hug" though . Much appreciated.