I am sorry to say but you should really learn how to detect the OBVIOUS RED FLAGS!!!

Please do me a favor and name the operation she had in 21st century terms. I mean, "removing poison from her body which has been building up over a long period of time" does indeed sound horrible - completely horrible - and, of course, I can see how that would be very serious, but still...

...do name the condition and the surgery...

On a more serious note, listen to everything wise people who warned you on here have been trying to tell you. And stop sending money. And ideally cut all contact. and, read up on scams before you ever communicate with anybody else over the internet. Better yet, stick to old-fashioned relating - it would be much safer for you.

Sorry you have wasted to much time and effort on a her.