It's just my opinion, but I think there's a difference between being dependent and wanting to be around someone.

My question would be, can you function without him? Basically, can you do things by yourself and not need him to do it?

If you can function even though you miss him, then I personally think that's normal. If you can't do anything like can't leave the house or fold laundry or whatever, then I think something is amiss.

For example, my wife and I don't do well apart. We're like quail. Yes, we can both handle day to day life and get things done, but we're happiest when we have each other around.

There a difference between wanting someone to be there and needing them to be there. When love is just blooming, it can be a little hard to tell the difference (here I go again, getting all mushy) because that person fills your heart so completely.

Instead of focusing on his being gone, think about the good times you'll have when you're together again.