I agree with all above, especially the part about drawing the line. Fact is, if it is a long distance relationship (as mine is) it seems to make it easier to 'neeeeed' him than it would be if you were in an average, uncomplicated by miles relationship. We've got issues to deal with, of course, but I've been working on taking a breath and not freaking out so much if it 'feels' like we're not communicating enough. It's not the quantity, after all, it's the quality, and that means a lot.

FB can be frustrating, but if you have a 'smart phone' you can try whatsapp...it's a free chat program for the phone and makes contact much much easier, is conducted in real time and is capable of sending pics of what you might be doing, so you can 'share' the experiance with him. I.E. my bf is coming over in a couple weeks and we're getting some furniture...so my 'job' was to find stuff we'd like. I went to the stores and took pics, sending them thru whatsapp so he could see and sorta be with me for the experiance. Made those moments of the day much more kind and my anxiety relaxed.