I agree with bland, on a number of levels. You have every right to feel the way you do. And also maybe if you let them know what is really going on for you then they will be more understanding, if not supportive. I'm sorry you've had to experience this. If they are already in the loop about what's happening for you, and they are confrontational and insensitive about it, then perhaps you may want to consider putting distance between them and yourself for the time being. I've had to do that with my family in the past. Too much drama and none of it was mine; it was their projections onto me. I do the best I can and if that's not good enough for people there's nothing I can do about it. It doesn't stop me from feeling guilty, of course, but the last thing I need is people confirming the worst things I already believe are true about myself. I am trying to recover on all levels and I don't find it helpful. And I don't believe that's being in denial or escapism either. I believe we all need different things in recovery and when we have severe symptoms that are not yet under control, or are easily triggered, that takes precedence over everything else.
I hope you are okay now.