Plan Z......radical acceptrance (a DBT - Dialectical Behavioral Therapy term)....it is what it is......don't stress or worry about it & don't focus on it......find more important & interesting things to focus your thoughts on & get on with your life. It's only our society that has made sex such a huge part of everyone's life & having to define their sexuality.......people who don't like labels have sure taken to having labels on sexuality...IMO.