it is a bit of a long read, i put the trigger icon up in case it is to triggering for members here

Well she has finally gone and done it, she is refusing to let me see my son before xmas so I can give him his presents, citing that she is going on holiday on the 21st of December and wont be back till January and she doesn’t have time for me to see my son to give him the presents early.

Then she said that I don’t see enough of my son to form a relationship with him and that she is pulling the plug on my visits, she is the one stopping me from seeing him all the time, I moved back to London so I could spend more time with my son, I have been lucky and seen him 4 times this year, I have asked her for more visits and she plain refuses stating she doesn’t have the time, now its my fault, go figure.

Now I don’t want to turn into the vengeful ex-husband , but I am going to fight for the right to see my son, she really does not know what is going to hit her, I know I am going to lose in court, that’s a given , but I can still make her attend court, on a weekday, sorry workday, to make her listen to me, and she will have to bring my son with her,

she can and will bring up my mental health status in court to work it against me, but I can do the same to her, I can bring up how she abandoned her daughter at her grandmothers (kids dad side) for 2 weeks and went on a drink and drugs binge that culminated in her being sectioned after a suicide attempt because her boyfriend at the time left her, (that is when we met by the way, in hospital, we were both sectioned at the time), or how after my son was born I gave up my job and only source of income to look after them after she developed post partum depression (baby blues) and was sectioned again, only to attempt a overdose at home when she was released from section. So you see the %#@&#! is really going to be flying both ways on this

I have every email I have ever sent her going back 3 years and 1 years worth of mobile phone calls listed before that, in regards to my son, asking for visitation, all are date and time stamped electronically, and I have every one of her responses saying yay or nay to the visits I requested, she has pushed me to far this time, its time I started pushing back.