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Old Aug 11, 2013, 01:10 AM
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Originally Posted by healingme4me View Post
That would lead to an 'open marriage'. Whether it's OK or not, is truly subjective. It's a lifestyle for some in this world. Will there be an openness and honesty about this lifestyle?
I THINK that LarSo did not mean opening the marriage, because of how he used the word PRIVATE in his post:

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Originally Posted by LarSo View Post
If you don't want to break a long-standing marriage for an older couple that's been good in all aspects but not in the last few years in sexual fulfillment for one partner, isn't it ok to have a private, outside sexual relationship?

If you can afford to have an outside sex partner, who is happy in that role, and the sexual satisfaction keeps your marriage, isn't that a good outcome?
I might be wrong, of course.
Thanks for this!
healingme4me