Best: "so-o-oh sexy..." - I used o-o-oh and an ellipsis (triple dots) trying to relate the feeling, the "intonation of the breath" if I may call it so, and the seriousness and even deep, dark sadness, without any shade of flirtatiousness, with which this was said. By the man who, in the final accounting, was/is the strongest attraction of the first half of my life; we will see what the second part has in store for me. Oh, and also - it was said over the phone in 2013 and I last saw the man in 1997...

Worst: "A personality disorder diagnosis cannot be given to you because you are not even a person. You are a hideous creature with tits." - ex 2nd H. And, he said it in a language in which the word "creature" is Neutral (neither Masculine nor Feminine, but Neutral/genderless - I know for people who only speak english it is weird, but many other languages have genders not just for pronouns such as "he" or "she", but also for nouns and adjectives).