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Old Aug 11, 2013, 01:21 PM
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Originally Posted by monalisasmile View Post
Hey Marsdotter,
I am also lesbian and fell completely in love with my first t, I knew the minute I met her I would fall in love and I should have run then but I didn't. I thought I could work through these fellings but I couldn't.
Do you think you might be able to tell your t about these feelings, I mean maybe you can work through this transference together?
I think I might be able to tell her. I'll see her in a few days again. At least if I tell her it will be out of my head and I won't have to speculate as much. She'll likely just state the boundaries and say how normal it is, etc., and then I will have her voice in my head when I start thinking about it next time, instead of wondering what she'd say.

I am wondering if you told yours, and, if you didn't, if that was why you couldn't work through the feelings? If you did or didn't tell her, is that a regret?