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Originally Posted by Marsdotter
I think I might be able to tell her. I'll see her in a few days again. At least if I tell her it will be out of my head and I won't have to speculate as much. She'll likely just state the boundaries and say how normal it is, etc., and then I will have her voice in my head when I start thinking about it next time, instead of wondering what she'd say.
I am wondering if you told yours, and, if you didn't, if that was why you couldn't work through the feelings? If you did or didn't tell her, is that a regret?
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I hope you can tell her

it would make it easier for you both.
I told my t on my second last session, she terminated after it.
I still don't know if she is gay, straight or bi. Maybe she couldn't handle me and my feelings but don't let this affect your decision as not all ts are going to react as strongly as mine did.