Very well said, Marg.... wildchild, if he is speaking like this that means he is not understanding you. Try to communicate to him what it is like, as hard as it is to even tell ourselves how we feel And as much as it appears to be "only in the mind", there is usually a biological deficiency of some sort going on, hence the need for a proper diet, exercise, possibly meds. Hope you feel better, hugs and blessings coming your way