Parents kinda mold their kids in whatever direction they intended or didn't intend. You can't tell how each person is going to react. If anything you coulda became just like them. I noticed when I was younger I would think some of my thoughts were mine but infact it was just my father or mothers. Like I wouldn't like certain shoes because in his eyes they were wack and that was that. When in reality i do like those shoes or that shirt.So I then started shopping by myself and developed my own taste. Or that I always had to do good in school or whatnot and get all A's. Puts pressure on you when you realize that you don't live up to those expectations. I eventually had to tell myself I had to work for my own things. Or that my dad is very protective so eventually now I'm telling myself I gotta get out into the world