I have been seeing a social worker who specializes in molestation. From time to time she will call me at home to see how I am doing and leave a message on the machine which my husband can access. Well, in my work with her, I confided in her that I believed my husband was having an affair. The next thing I know is that she is leaving a message on our phone answering machine talking about the affair which I believe my husband has had. I am floored about this. Luckily I got the message before my husband, otherwise it would have nearly ruined our relationship. I am thinking of having an attorney friend of mine write her a letter telling her to never contact me again in writing or by phone. Talk about betrayal of confidentialty!