Hello & Welcome, Liveforthemoment05!

That's not whining; that's documentation. In fact, that's great documentation, exactly the kind of history I would want if I were a therapist or treatment coordinator. Please save what you've written.

Wow. You've described a psycho-social Gordian Knot. The circumstances of your life at home did not prepare you to integrate well in the outside world. As far as "fixing" things goes, I suspect you'll need practical assistance that goes beyond medication, and obesity may be more of a symptom than a core problem.

Please keep posting.