Well,my first post and I am responding to you,who is in a situation that i amy have been in,at one time.I will keep it simple;i will not tell you that you sahould get a divorce;i will not tell you that you shouldnt get one either;whats important here is his recognition of the fact that he has a illness and that help is availabe;he can recover,whether he is with you or not;you have a responsibility to yourself for your well being and that of your child;I will not say that you shouldnt give him another oppurtunity to get hisself into a stable mode and deal with this illness;there is a saying from the so called"old school thought";tht is SHOW ME!!You can be for him and not be with him.I am a peer support specialist and I have bipolar 1 disorder,PTSD,anxiety and anti-social personality disorder and a few things wrong with my heart;i am a veteran and I am in a transitional program;live or die;tht is what it ultimately comes down too;have you heard of Richard Pryor?After he burned his b*** on fire,after he complained bakc and forth to Jim Brown:Jim brown said"Whatcha going to do?Thts the question that only he can answer.You have to look out for your interests as well as that of the child;those are your priorities and i will say:take care of self and child.