He has no problems starting or finishing things. he was born in a different time though. He was born in 1957 and I suppose in his day you just shoved your troubles down and locked them away. I suppose that is what you were taught. The only reason I have ever considered looking for answers is times are different. I guess it is somewhat more acceptable. I am not a fan of doctors either though. i hardly go to them unless I absolutely have to. So the fact I even tried at in the mental health area is pretty crazy to me if i think about it now. But hey it has been for the better. I am glad I took the plunge and kept persistent.