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Old Aug 12, 2013, 03:14 AM
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I think your t just wants you to be safe and have a good experience. Sex educator can talk to you and help you gauge your readiness.

For some people its easier to be relaxed if your comfortable with their body and you've both had time to explore one another. It may mean putting off vaginal sex for a few months until you feel relaxed. Anxiety will make the experience suck.

Good foreplay makes a better overall experience.