I am 40 years old, married for 16 year and have 2 beautiful children! At work a few months ago a new female started working at my store. Through working with her and chatting and having fun I now find myself attracted to her. I am so confused because NEVER in my life have I EVER been attracted to a female. I really don't know what to do. When I look at her I get butterflies, I find her very addictive.......I need to be around her. She is also heterosexual and she has no clue I have these feelings. Can someone help me? Is this a normal 40 yr old thing? Will it pass? Do tell her? Do I tell my husband?