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Originally Posted by Confusedinomicon
Did these thoughts arise before you ever explored porn or have you /always/ felt this way?
If your only experience with sex is through porn then I can /totally/ understand your view point. Porn doesn't really portray a loving and consenting relationship between two adults. Porn isn't focused on the emotional connection between the two individuals. Im in a pretty much sexless relationship, but we do engage occasionally and its an awesome experience because its consenting.
When you binge on porn do you often spend time trying to find novelties? Do you end up looking at things that are past softcore stuff?
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I have always felt this way.
The Porn come into play much later and while it certainly hasn't helped I don't think it's the root of why I am the way I am.
As to your second question, it is my shame to admit that when I do binge on porn it is almost always not one's typical "vanilla" fare. Nothing extreme, illegal, or anything I'd even call hardcore. In fact, that kind of stuff personally really isn't my bag. I just tend to gravitate towards things that are a bit... odd for most people.