I'm a 40 year old female, married for 16 years, I have 2 wonderful children. I recently met a women thru work and I'm finding my self very attracted to her. I've never had an attraction to women before, only men. When I look at her especially in the eyes I get butterflies and all kinds of crazy feelings. (I try to avoid eye contact) I find her very addictive and I think about her all the time. What the heck is going on with me? Do I confront her? Do I tell my husband? Not really sure if I could do either one but I'm going crazy inside!!please help me