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Originally Posted by gayleggg
Sounds like your life is like a rollercoaster. Anyone would feel angry, fed up and distant with this kind of behavior going on. You are going to have to decide if you can live with this behavior the rest of your life if you marry him. His behavior is not likely to change. Even if he does love you, this kind push and pull behavior can only cause you pain. It's up to you if you are going to take it. Best wishes whatever you decided.
Gayle
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I know, Gayle you're so right. I know the 'talk' is gonna kill me but I just don't think I can do this anymore. It's frustrating because he is such a child about everything...I keep wondering if I was only here to free him from a bad situation and now, I'm not needed anymore. Not sure which hurts more, that realization or the realization what we had was a temporary that just lasted years...but was never meant to be permenant.
