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Originally Posted by Webgoji
Should you tell your husband? I think communication in a marriage is very important. Just let him know, "So I'm finding this woman at work attractive, it's really weird."
So long story short, don't worry. It's probably just part of your sexual maturity and not something wrong with you.
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I think this is a great suggestion and the phrasing is perfect (because it is simple and straightforward, and distills the whole OP down to one sentence).
I think you should tell this to your husband asap, because this way you won't add a layer of being clandestine to all of this, and the layer of being clandestine can work towards exaggerating the attraction. If it is all in the open, it will become less important even in your mind. Unless, of course, it is something really strong, but then you will know with time.
You know, as in Romeo and Juliet - parental disapproval, secrecy, and all of those things only work to accentuate the attraction.