As I said, I was basing my opinion on the garden variety mainstream porn, which accounts for a big chunk of usage. You are talking about things that are long tail. I was talking about the thick of the bell curve.

To the extent that there are things that many women would not do - sure, but so what? So what?

Back a few years ago I saw that little porn preview blurb. A woman who was very skinny, with very very small breasts, very narrow hips, a waxed pubic area, and an energetic, uplifting voice of a corporate organizer announced that at a certain time she would be demonstrating taking in two penises. And invited everybody to stay tuned. I did not stay tuned because I was not interested in seeing that and also was very busy (I was seeing that stuff incidentally while involved in doing filtering software work, so there was a lot of stuff coming through me that I did not pay attention to, but the high energy of this woman's call for attention was something I did pay attention to). Of course, to the extent that she was unusually narrow in the hip area (basically, of prepubescent dimensions), the idea that she would take in two penises indeed demonstrated that she had special abilities. OK, so as a curiosity, it might warrant attention. Maybe for some men it is arousing, sure, why not. Can I do that? God forbid I would never even consider doing something like this for fear of being torn, bleeding, being exposed to infections, and general disinclination towards using my body for something so weird and extreme. God forbid. But if somebody wants to watch it - here, there is professional porn videos that show it, so they can watch it. But - I am not competing with this. The idea that porn threatens real women presupposes that real women are somehow called upon to enter into competition with porn actresses. But why would they? I acknowledge that the skinny blonde lady with an energizing, uplifting tone of voice has special abilities I do not have - neither would I risk the integrity of my vagina to take in two penises, nor do I have this kind of an energizing tone of voice (or else I would have been a CEO of some company by now... not a Fortune 500, no, but some medium range company...100-500 employees, I would say...). So I am not entering into any competitions - my hat's off to her for her unusual abilities and that is it.