So, on the one hand, I'll have to agree that actions speak louder than words. My husband doesn't say "I love you" as much as I do, but he shows it in many ways. I probably say it more than I show it.
However, it's a concern if he thinks that, because something doesn't matter to him, it doesn't matter. He should be interested in what's important to you, too.
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Originally Posted by KathyOlivia
He stated that we didn't really know each other  because we'd only been in person company twice (both times for 2 weeks) and then this time (although we've known each other for years and have talked daily for better than a year) |
Sorry, but he has a point. Talking daily is no substitute for actually being in each other's presence. That's how you find out whether you really get on, there are a lot of things you just cannot work out at a distance.
I noticed you said you wanted to get married and he was supposed to propose. But where's the incentive to propose if you've already said you want to marry him?