I forgot to add something else about desensitization. When it 1st starts, its on a very small scale...... I bet anyone who watches porn rarely goes back to the same video that started it all. Why ...because it doesn't excite them anymore. Its human nature to want more and up the ante. They find themselves looking for more and more stimulus......it takes longer and longer to find one that will do it for them.

For a man who's using it once in a while, it probably won't interfere with his excitement for his partner. But for the couple who's having challenges and perhaps an average sex life....naturally a Cirque De Soleil video can't compete with average sex with his partner. Then when he does try having sex, it takes longer and longer to climax and usually has to finish with a hand job. Most videos don't really show what a woman wants and its not having it all over her hair and face.....contrary to how most end.