Worst case scenario: So I've spent an hour or two building up to sex, he's fingering me, etc. and I decided that I'm ready for intercourse. He's ready, climbs on top of me, and then he gets it in...and I completely meltdown.

What the hell do I do? Would that count as taking my virginty, even if he just got it in and pulled out?

Or what if we're going at it and it just hurts too much and I want to stop? Or for any reason, how do I tell him to stop, even when part of me doesn't want him to stop?

I guess I should have asked the sex educator that, but I couldn't think of what to ask at the time.

How do I physically and mentally prepare for the first time? Seeing and touching his penis for the first time was *mind-blowing*, so I have no idea how I may react to the actual first time. And I will not give oral first. Since it will be going inside me, I want it to "count".