my family have made it quite clear that im gonna suffer so much due to my unpolite nature and anger issues. the problem is while i know that i get angry easily ,sometimes i dont even notice when i speak a bit harshly!

i really reallyyy want to get better otherwise im gonna get into serious trouble. some of my relatives have stopped talking to me altogether due to my "rudeness". and i want to make things right.
things which trigger me into getting angry include just about every F****** thing!

if things dont go my way i get upset...but then i recline into my own shell and dont talk to ppl much..and that too implies that im being rude. i know that im not a perfect girl and i want to improve myself. any suggestion will be highly appreciated!