spin off CZJ thread...

am I the only one who finds the "there's help" phrase eyeroll inducing.

I don't know. It's just too much focus on the "help from others" and too little focus on strenght of the person struggling. And hardly ever we hear what helped the person announcing that "there's help". It seems kinda... forced, empty, vague... and reinforcing that the person is kinda doomed unless others enter the picture.

or maybe it's me being against "help". Even "do you need anyhelp" when carrying huge bag (cause us tough chicks can carry our **** ourselves).