I had always believed that I would be in control of my own weaning from my therapist. I envisioned that we could eventually cut back on sessions - from once a week to twice a month and then possibly only once a month.

But, no - I am facing a quick 'termination' because I'm moving out of the area. So, I only have 2 or 3 sessions left.

How does a person leave a close relationship like this so suddenly? I know. I know. - she's only my therapist but to be honest she is the only person I will miss when I move. I'll be relocating to where most of my family and friends live.

Close to 3 years we've worked together. She has literally and figuratively saved my life. She is the person who has helped guide me to my authentic self.

I can't imagine how I'll manage this loss. Even those weeks in which I thought I didn't need to see her, KNOWING that she'd be available for me if a need arose has always been comforting.

I know I'll be fine. But there is a grief felt.

When I mentioned Skype sessions, she was kind enough to tell me she'd consider it but I can see that she's not thrilled by the idea. Maybe she'll be more open to offering telephone sessions.

She did talk about me finding a therapist in my new area. I didn't like hearing that at all. It was like she was already saying goodbye.

But she was gentle and kind and she WILL help me through this. Maybe she suspects that once I move that my need for her will decrease - simply by my lifestyle change. idk

Has anyone been forced to make a fast 'termination' because of moving? How did it work out?