I don't know what you consider "bad things" and whether they are actually bad. We can only learn from making "mistakes" and one of my favorite sayings is, "All sun makes a desert." If you are shy/want things to remain the same, God isn't insterested in that, He wants you to grow, which might be bad news to you :-)

Too, God doesn't just grant our wishes/prayers willy nilly. Prayer is communication with God not just "oh please make such-and-such be so" and then deciding God doesn't like you because you don't "get" what you pray for. There's a lot to learn from listening to His responses, whatever they are. I would pray specifically to Him about this matter and your feelings and see what He has to say.