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Old Aug 13, 2013, 08:14 PM
Anonymous33150
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Originally Posted by kirby777 View Post
Hi.

I am back from T. WE went over my Vision Board and she wanted to know why used each thing. I had a HUGE engagement ring, fancy kitchen, 2 ocean/beach pics, dog pics, a food pic, the words "Romance", "Get more sleep", "Increase self esteem".

She asks me "where is the guy?"I just shrugged my shoulders. SHe asked me if I was going to provide these things to myself..I said, maybe. Then I advised her there were more materialistic things I wanted to place on there but did not have pics and am having pc issues. She did not care...she wants me to find a pic of a guy and place it on there.

I do not have to bring it back next week.

She was more tolerable today.

Thanks!
Put a picture of a frog on there...or David Hasselhoff.

Does she not get how hard it is to date when you are depressed and anxious, etc? I just tried, and although he also had his own issues which added to the mix, the stress of trying to leave the house at a certain time so we could do a certain activity (and not be late because of my anxiety, and the pressure of trying not to mess up, thereby ruining the activity and disappointing him) was ENORMOUS...my anxiety almost always won out and I was much more emotionally stressed than I am alone now since I told him it wasn't working for me. Plus trying to be "fun" and engaging when you are not even close to that is beyond EXHAUSTING. And trying to be with someone else fully when your head is full of your own issues is impossible! Isn't it always Ts who tell you to work on yourself first before you can be happy with someone else?
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Thanks for this!
kirby777, NWgirl2013