ok i was just wondering what people thought about something my dad said to me the other day. id just seen him for the first time in a month and he asked how things were going at school so i said i thought it was going really well and there were some of the things we were being taught that came pretty naturally though i expected things to get much harder after christmas. so he replied saying "i wonder what you re missing out on? whats going over your head that you re not understanding?".
anyway i just told him i didnt think that was happening and rolled my eyes to myself and moved on but when i mentioned it to mum later she said that was horrible and seemed really upset. should i have been more upset by that? my t also keeps asking me to talk and write about dad and i dont really see the point. i dont feel anything in particular for or against him. is that because im numb about him and stuffing or because im just over it and have accepted hes a jerk?
i told T dad has basically told me he resented me and my sister ever being born and she kept pushing saying how did that feel and it must be very hurtful to never have had him there and i dont feel anything about it. is that a bad thing? what am i missing here? i mean hes messed up and can do only harm. the end. what more is there to say? what am i supposed to be feeling and whats wrong with me that im not? should i be reacting to stuff like that? im a bit curious. any ideas or comments anyone please would be great. id like to understand this more and get some more perspectives on it.
thank you.
biiv