I completely agree with sunrise. Kirby, you've only just started seeing your T and she doesn't know what's important to you. It sounds as if she is imposing her own ideas of what "should" be important to somebody of your age and gender, and that's not something a T (or anyone else, but especially not a T) should do. I honestly don't think she sounds very helpful at all.

I think your message to your T in the Dear T... thread was spot on, btw.